Monday, December 21, 2009
A sneak peak into my life!
My life is so different than I every imagined!!!! My life has been changed around forever for the better after giving birth to my beautiful daughter her name is Nyla she was born January 11, 2009 happiest day of my life. Life has been interesting and so much more complete and happy!! I do not feel complete without my daughter she is a more than welcomed member of my family. Its been hard though because I am a single mother , her daddy has never even tried to see her so I do it all alone but with the help of my parents. Being a parent is something I never thought I could do and now after its happened its something I would never take back; its the best thing ever! My daughter is my world and it comes natural to take good care of her. Challenges I have faced is not having any money but that's my choice because I feel she needs me in the beginning of life also I am still happily breastfeeding! I am still young only 19 so I get to grow up with Nyla. I feel like she teaches me more than I do her! She has taught me patients, love, compassion and to not be selfish. Before her I only wanted to party now thats the last thing on my mind. I love being a mother and strive to be the best I can be. I have been in college the whole time and taking care of my daughter. What works for me is to get all my work done when she goes to sleep that way she doesnt get neglected. Nap times and night time I usually am up late doing my work and thats k because I want to be successful and be a wonderful romodel to my daughter. I really enjoy being in school too it gives me time to myself. Life is different but I have the best life!!!!!
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Heidi, congrats on the birth of your daughter. I understand what you say as far as the father not being in your daughters life,my daughter age 22 now has a 17 month old little boy that has brought so much joy to us all also has a so called father that is not apart of his life and well to me my grandson is better off not knowing him. They too live at home and like yourself my daughter has no money not for the same reasons sorry to say my daughter feels no need to support her son as long as she has me and her step father doing it. I have much respect for you and commend you on the choices you have made you are very level headed and no just what you want for your daughter ane yourself. Best of all to too.
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ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I am sorry to hear that. The grandmothers role is not to support your grandson, its sad shes not wanting to take responsibilty. I am sorry for that. I wish you the best of luck and thank you for your response!!! Hopefully we can keep in contact through blogger :). Well you know I have made mistakes but I am doing my best and I know right now my parents are helping me but as soon as I can and get a job I will help them out, I cant wait to get a job ben then I dont want to be away from my daughter. So How are you doing in school? How may classes have you taken? I am about half way through. I am in the honor program but I am nervous about if I can do it or not. Any way I hope we can talk ore get to know eachother.
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